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Thursday, July 31, 2008 Do i have healthy R/S?
though at times, i may be grubbing abt the things i nid to deal with or unhappy with certain things, i will not hang on it for long. I will forget it the next day. Thats how a r/s should work. As in, when u quarrel with ur bf or so.. , u dun reali angry over it for long. Cos, this will worsen the r/s and the gap between both parties will drift apart even further. Instead, u can tok things out with ur loved ones. Sort things out and by then, a conclusion. Great R/S dun happened overnite. U will get to learn the mistakes that both of u have encountered and try not or NEVER repeat again. If not, the outcome wun be the same anymore.. :(( With my current status, Single, i tried to foster a gd relationship with all the friends around me and my family. :) Im honest, considerate and forgiving as much i can be. Im truthful to the one that truely deserved it. I wun waste my time on those ppl who dun even treasure me and dun cherished the memories tt we both spend tgt. Im honest with my own feelings. If any of the guy whom i like asked me if i have feelings for him, i will definitely be honest with my feelings and tell him the truth. If not, guess i dun tink i will have the opportunity. But if there is any guy whom i dun like but have feelings for me, guess i will be honest enough to tell him what i feel. Even if i dun hv feelings or interest in the person, i will reject in the first place BUT... i willing to gif it a try and see if things can work out UNEXPECTEDLY.. LOLX. cos i dun wanna missed any more. If i dun try, how i noe things doesnt work out?? YEAH??? I try to be considerate to those ppl around me. Put myself in their shoes as all my friends and loved ones have always been giving in to me. Im reali very thankful to em. Without their love, i guess i wouldnt be able to move on just bcos i dun hv a bf right now.. :D Thanks... Last but not least, as i have to be considerate, i have to be forgiving as well. I have to put myself in their shoes and think for em. B4 i can conclude anything, i must find out what happen. That is when forgiving is needed. If u dun hear things out, u r unable to understand and forgive. N forever, u r unable to forgive n forget. Well, indeed there are many ppl who have hurted and broke my heart, i will of cos still forgive em... But what they have done, i will never ever forget regardless what happens. SERIOUSLY!! Thats me, im sorry. Forgiving nid lots of courage to do so as i seriously do not wan any unsurvived r/s hanging around whereby i still get to see the person or stay in contact... :(( :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::
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